1 /5 Mike L.: I’m writing this as a paying customer, and I’m honestly upset and disgusted by how this experience was handled.
On a Saturday night, myself and two friends stopped in for drinks to catch up. One friend was visiting from out of the country (France). We ordered drinks, spent money, and initially everything seemed fine.
When it came time to pay, we assumed gratuity was included, which is common at many bars. After a couple of drinks, we paid the amount listed on the bill. It was an honest mistake.
What followed was extremely uncomfortable and unprofessional. Another waitress (white female), not our waiter (short male with ponytail, ethnic background), approached our table on behalf of her colleague and asked if the service was okay because we had not tipped. We immediately and politely apologized, explaining that we believed gratuity was included. We also clearly stated that the tip could absolutely be kept.
Despite this, our waiter later returned to the table and dropped the tip back down, even after the misunderstanding had already been addressed. This felt passive-aggressive, awkward, and unnecessary. The entire interaction was strange and rude, turning what should have been a simple clarification into an uncomfortable situation.
To be clear, this is not an isolated experience. Every time I have been here and had this same waiter, his service has come across as rude, dismissive, and attitude-driven. This incident only reinforced that pattern.
Mistakes happen, especially after a couple of drinks. How staff handle those moments matters. This situation could have been resolved easily and respectfully, but instead it was handled in a way that made paying customers feel embarrassed and unwelcome. Because of this experience, I will not be returning. It appeared as though bias certainly played a factor, and when called out about the situation all involved (staff: Bartender, Female waiter, and Waiter) all played victim.
Very disgusted again.